Being that I am a woman I find that a lot of times we feel like men should know what we’re thinking. Certain things like what we would like them to do and what we would NOT like them to do. Now a lot of the times we either would rather not nag and complain because we want you to figure it out on your own. Another reason is because we feel like if we do spell it out that it won’t be done and that will bother us even more.
Read: You know something is right for you, but you have that character on your shoulder saying “No.” Why though? You’ve been through so many experiences that you don’t even know what you want at this point. You’re hiding out from your own truth. You are so lost in your own substance that you cant tell the real anymore.
How many times do we catch ourselves right back into the same situations that we said we would never be in again? I know I’ve done it and I’m sure others have experienced the same as well. Its like when you’re a little kid and your parents tell you not to touch the stove but you do it anyway just to see what happens on your own. Why do we like to invite pain back into our lives? Why do we still proceed with touching the stove knowing that its just going to hurt us?
Read: Let’s start this blog off with a bang. Now when it comes to social media, real life, I like to keep it as honest as can be. One day I’ll talk S#@! and the next day I’ll have no feelings. I have people asking all the time, who hurt you? What makes you so blunt? Why this, why that. Well let’s say experience really does mold you. I started my first real relationship at 16 years old. I had no idea that almost 10 years later I would be sitting here staring at a computer investing my time and energy into sharing my heart break story with anyone else. There are certain times in your life that you can remember from just the smell of a scent, or the reminder of scenery. All of a sudden you wind up right back in that space, remembering that exact moment.